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If you intend to underline the formality of your wedding, wearing gloves is one way to set the style. Gloves, much like your train and your veil, are considered as formal wedding attire. The key to the level of formality is that the longer the gloves, the more formal they are. Your selection of gloves impacts on how your bridesmaids will dress, because they should never be dressed more formally than you are. That coordination holds true for the length of their gowns, which must be the same or shorter than yours. If you choose to wear gloves, your bridesmaids should also. The length of their gloves must be the same or shorter than yours. One of the quandaries you may face relates to the time in your ceremony when you exchange or receive your wedding ring. If you are wearing short gloves, it is appropriate to remove your gloves and hand them to one of your attendants. If you will be wearing long or elbow-length gloves, your simplest option is to slit the seam on your ring finger and push the fabric in, so your ring finger becomes accessible. Another option involves making a cut perpendicular to the seam, across the seam at the base of your finger. During the ring exchange, you can slip your finger out, and once the band is in place you can slip your finger back in. A third alternative is the purchase an old-fashioned glove that buttons at inside of the wrist. With this type of glove, you will need to become adept at unbuttoning the buttons at your wrist. Then you will slip your hand through the opening you created and, finally, you will need to take that part of the glove that is left "hanging" and push it at the back of your hand. Should you choose this option, you would best practice the technique before your wedding day. The good news with this alternative is that your bouquet will probably hide your hand, so may want to do the process before the processional, in advance of the ceremony. The final option is to purchase fingerless gloves, which, of course, solves the problem. This type of glove begins just above the elbow and goes down over of the back of the hand. A loop is used at a point of fabric to secure the glove to the middle finger. There are several etiquette guidelines for when you should wear your gloves. There is, of course, no glove police, but rather traditions that have been handed down through the years. 1. Your gloves should be worn for the processional and through the ceremony. 2. Your gloves should be worn while you greet your guests in the receiving line. Contrary to gentlemen, ladies do not remove gloves when shaking hands. If you are concerned that your gloves will get dirty when you shake many hands, you might remove them temporarily and put them on again for dancing. 3. Your gloves should also be worn dancing at your reception. 4. Your gloves should be removed while you are eating, to prevent you from staining the fabric. That also holds for during dessert and cake. 5. Your jewelry should never be worn over your gloves. Some people bend the rule a bit for exchanging rings. 6. Your gloves should be worn during the reception. Today, for comfort's sake, many brides remove their gloves at some time into the reception. Gloves as a bridal accessory go back many years. Brides in ancient Greece believed that placing a lump of sugar into one of their wedding gloves would bring sweetness to their married life. For many brides today, gloves continue to set a style and fashion tone to their weddings. The selections are many and varied. Some brides even frame their gloves as a sweet memento of their special day. |
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