I Would Like to Introduce
. . . A Primer On Proper Introductions

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Receiving lines are a tradition at many weddings, but the "how to" of introductions can seem complicated.
Begin by deciding what last name the bride will be using after the wedding. If, for whatever reason the couple feels that the bride's choice of last name will be a sore point with some family members, the family should be made aware of their decision well before the wedding.

The most important rule of thumb is that when making introductions is that you present the lesser "ranking" person to the senior person. So . . .
1. A younger person gets introduced to an older person.
2. A junior work or business person gets introduced to an older or senior person.
3. A local guest of equal status outranks an out-of-town guest.
4. A clergy person outranks a lay person.


The method of introduction is fairly simple:
1. Say the name of the senior person first.
2. Use the formal name of the senior person when making an introduction, so the junior person is sure of how to address the senior person.
3. When introducing people of equal rank, it doesn't matter who is presented to whom, but do include as much information as possible.
4. A formal approach toward introducing your in-laws to guests is a respectful choice, regardless of what your in-laws may ask you to call them later on.
5. With weddings today including extended family members, introductions should include brief explanations.
6. When introducing a couple who live together, straight or gay, it is not necessary or appropriate to give long explanations. If you know the terminology that couples use toward one another, use it.

Keep these simple guidelines in mind and remember that you're in a loving group and you will do just fine.

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